Wellbeing scenarios Tom

23, Band 5 Nurse

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What happened?

Tom was caring for a patient and prepping him for surgery. The patient’s father was at the bedside.

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    Grace, the band 7, in front of everyone said, “why is this patient not ready for surgery yet?”

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    Tom did not know how to respond to Grace whilst appearing professional in front of the patient’s father.

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    Grace shouted, “this should have been done hours ago!” and tutted at Tom. Tom was shaken. He was shocked and knew this was out of character for Grace.

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    The patient's father was agitated too and asked if his son’s surgery was going to be delayed.

And then?

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    An ANP, Sally, overheard this and asked Tom if he’d like to take 5 minutes while she prepped the patient for surgery.

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    Tom was grateful for the break as his hands were shaking. Tom stepped away for 5 minutes before he returned to help Sally prepare his patient for surgery.

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    Sally spoke with Tom afterwards and explained that Grace was going through a difficult time and not to take it personally. Sally explained clearly to Tom that Grace’s behaviour was inappropriate.

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    Sally then spoke to Grace to help Grace recognise the incivility of her interaction with Tom.

How to improve

  • Improve

    Provide staff with key phrases to use in an uncivil situation like this one.

  • Improve

    Provide structured conversations with staff following up instances of uncivility.

  • Improve

    Encourage staff to have a supported “cup of civility conversation” with colleagues in instances of uncivility.

  • Improve

    Point staff toward Civility saves lives: civilitysaveslives.com